So, apparently women aren’t into sex as much as men.

Does it really mean that we don’t have the same carnal desires as guys just because we can control ourselves on the metro when a gorgeous guy or girl sits opposite us? I think we just express ourselves differently, not that we don’t have any desires.

Watch this hilarious trip into the mind of one man who desperately tries (and fails) to imagine a world in which women are just as horny as men. And watch as he merely swaps the roles of the characters, but not the scene. A scene in which sexually expressive and desirous women go to sleazy strip clubs and have secret midnight wanks over their sleeping partners.

What is it that stops men from understanding that women desire sex just as much as they do? Fear? Is this the last bastion of control that men wield over us? Well, if it is, then I hope the new wave of female directors and writers is helping to raze it sooner rather than later.
This video perfectly exemplifies the problems with porn – it is made for men, by men. Men that cannot think further than traditional thought patterns towards sex or fathom the fact that, yes, women are just as horny as men!

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Today I would like to talk about bishtraining, a website I discovered on Twitter about sex and relationships for young people.

The author is a “sex and relationships trainer, consultant, project worker, do-gooder”. He’s been a youth worker for 15 years and he’s been doing young people’s sexual health projects and advice work for nearly 10 years.

The usual porn is often the only way young people learn about sex and without the experience they often think real sex is like porn and that all women are like porn actresses. Sometimes it leads to sexism and incompatibility in couples. That’s why Bish decided to fill in the blanks and educate about what real sex is and how porn is different from what a real relationship needs.

I’ve decided to write this blog because I am sick and tired of young people not getting the sex and relationships education that they deserve. I’m putting this right here. I will post everything you need to know -Bish

In this blog there is no taboo, no transmitting of shame and it’s full of advice that can really help a teenager when he or she can’t talk to parents nor teachers.

Besides, Bish talks about EVERYTHING, from safe sex and contraception to masturbation, relationships and good sex… every question we’ve all had once.

In his post Porn School: the problem with learning about sex from porn, he talks about the differences between porn and real sex which can be pretty hard to see when you’re a horny teenager. He reminds us that porn is acting, that it’s usually made by men, for men and that pizza delivery guys don’t get to have sex with their clients, among many other things that are important to know to make the difference when you get to have sex with a partner.

This very down-to-earth guide can be pretty useful for teenagers who are everywhere but on Earth and also for adults and parents.

You can know more about Bish on his professional website and follow him on twitter

I recently mentionned the “Real Dolls” on my twitter but I wanted to give it a deeper thought here.

This is definitely the best response to the lady who denied that sex could also be artistic in a video I posted the other day. Well, here´s the proof! This fascinating peek into the Real Doll studio shows us how founder Matt McMullen is using his sculpting skills to create these highly realistic, fully working dolls.

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What gives more food for thought is the idea of a robotic RealDoll that could be programmed to move independently of its owner. According to McMullen, this is not so far out of reach. Doesn´t that blur the boundaries between fantasy and reality in a truely irresistible way?

What I like about these dolls is that they’re not interchangeable, every one of them is a piece of art. So whatever we may think of someone having a realtionship with a doll in the way that most of us reserve for real people, this is undoubtedly not only a fascinating facet of human sex culture but also human psychology, especially as the dolls get more and more believable to both sight and touch. The image of a lonely man and his blow-up doll are definitely a thing of the past!

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