MARIE CLAIRE: How Do You Tell Your Daughters That You Direct Adult Films?

I’m a guest writer in the May 2012 issue of Marie Claire Spain, talking about my vision of a new kind of adult cinema. I hope that you like the article, see below for the English translation or follow this link to open a PDF document (in Spanish)

GUEST CONTRIBUTION: MARIE CLAIRE SPAIN, MAY 2012

When people around me learn of my profession, they immediately start in with the morbid questions. And even if they’re liberal people, they all ask the same thing: how did you tell your parents and how are you going to explain it to your daughters? I realize that I have a controversial profession: I’ve written books about sex and feminism, and I also produce and direct indie adult movies.

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Cabaret Desire: Movie of the Year

Cabaret Desire has been awarded MOVIE OF THE YEAR at the Feminist Porn Awards 2012 Gala in Toronto!!! Here you can see me giving the acceptance speech. Wow! I’m happy! More pictures of the gala here.

I’m honoured, I’m happy and today I will show the movie in New York’s Museum of Sex !

Is it Porn ?

I’m in Toronto! GOOD FOR HER has invited me to their FEMINIST PORN AWARDS. Yesterday night we had great time in the BLOOR CINEMA, where we screened a piece of my last movie Cabaret Desire, and some of the work of other directors. Tomorrow is the big night with the awards ceremony in the Berkeley Church (a church?! WOW!).

While being here in Toronto I have some time off the office and I’m starting to think and try to redefine or more precisely rename what I do. Is it really porn? The TORONTO GLOBE AND MAIL published and article that made me think.

Sometimes I feel that the word porn predefines a lot in the mind of the public, and I think that I want to start seeing my work as independent adult cinema.  I’m a feminist woman doing movies (with narrative and cinematographic values) that happens to have explicit sex. Is this porn? What do you think?

Take a look for example to my short film Handcuffs (that is free online here) and email me your comments an opinions.

WHO NEEDS FEMINISM? WE ALL DO, OF COURSE!

You, like me, would be surprised at some of the responses this Tumblr site has received.
In just a few days, there have been nearly 800 posts!
Check it out, and tell me and the whole world…why you need feminism?

 

 

 

http://whoneedsfeminism.tumblr.com/archive

MISS REPRESENTATION … IN MEDIA BUT NOT PORN?

I’ve just finished watching ‘Miss Representation’ on iTunes, and I absolutely loved it!  Recently released after it’s premier in late 2011, this film focuses on the representation of women in mainstream U.S. media: a topic near and dear to my heart both because of my work and my two little daughters.  Drawing on statistics, teenage accounts, and interviews with the influential (politicians, journalists, filmmakers, academics), the documentary outlines the clear consequences of these representations, which so often go unnoticed in today’s society.  Clearly I wasn’t the only one who loved it, since it has been lauded by nine film festivals worldwide, and awarded part of the Sundance Official Selection.

These images broadcasted in the media – of women being sexualized, objectified and judged based only on aesthetics– have ceased to evolve for so long that it makes me wonder whether people even notice them.  Have women become complacent?  Do they just not know what to do about how their gender is being stereotyped and represented?  Or are these representations so ingrained in our culture that it takes a massive effort to recognize them at all?  If you’re like me, then maybe you didn’t find the facts presented very novel – but the personal accounts are what drew me in.  Because I think that everyone struggles in negotiating who they are with who they think society wants them to be – and to see others sharing in this struggle filled me with a sense of camaraderie and a sort of call-to-arms.  The fact that the teens today are still dealing with impossible, projected images that us teens from yesterday were makes me terrified that so too will the teens of tomorrow.

What can we do to change the representation of women in media?  First, I would say begin to recognize it if you haven’t already – the issue exists, and it’s certainly not getting any better by ignoring it.  What do you notice are your favorite movies, t.v. shows, news channels, magazines, shopping brands?  How do they represent women?  More often than not, I think the representation will be so far from our own values (let alone our own experiences) that it makes you reassess the idea of entertainment all together.

Also, educate the next generation: if we rely on media to do the job, then the inevitable outcome will be adopting the values portrayed by the media as their own.  Kids need to know that who they are and what makes them imperfect is exactly why they are special and worthy.  The value of oneself is self-determined and this ought to be taught to boys and girls alike.

In trying to change an industry, the best option we have is to exercise personal choice.  You are more empowered than you think!  Choose products that represent your values if you don’t already, and learn to think critically about how something is presented and why exactly it appeals to you.  I often like to ask myself, “do you actually identify with the woman in the advertisement, or do you simply want to be her?”  So much of the media is based on this idea: capitalizing off of our own self-dissatisfaction.

A large part of my success with Erika Lust Films has been because my personal vision of eroticism is breaking the kind of traditional mold portrayed by mainstream media.  By refusing to take part in this representation of women, and instead giving characters voice, power and uninhibited expression in their sexual lives, I’m trying to create a new media encouraging a women-positive message.  This has been a huge factor in attracting an audience (mainly women; significant in an industry targeted towards, and dominated by, men!) and offering them something that they never thought existed.  I hope to enrich my viewers’ lives by giving them sexual imagery with which they can identify and incorporate into their own sexual exploration.

With this in mind, I was definitely surprised that porn was completely omitted from the project.  Granted, I understand the reasons behind it: namely the “opening a Pandora’s box” effect of introducing porn both as a norm in our culture and an actual transfiguring force.   Entire films, books, lectures, etc, have been devoted to the topic of women portrayal in porn and how it changes the way then men view women, women view themselves, young people view sex and how the media can use sex to promote product.  But in talking about this, one would have to admit how relevant porn is in culture AND personal lives … which most people just aren’t ready to do.  In my eyes, the blatant sexualization and objectification of women in mainstream media is parallel in mainstream porn.  I would say that the only difference is that media surrounds us constantly, whereas porn is merely accessible.  Mainstream porn culture effects are pretty clear in one’s personal life {make love not porn link}, but what about in the media?  Pornification is a great term referring to this, and can be seen everywhere from suggestive (or straight up explicit) music videos, sex advice columns, and video games to fashion and art.

What do you think readers?  Did you see the film?  What was your reaction?  Do you think it might have been interesting or useful to add porn into the cultural debate?  Do you even see the effects of porn in mainstream media and culture??  I look forward to your responses!

The Seventh Annual Feminist Porn Awards

Feminist Porn Award, next April 19th in Toronto

The Good For Her Feminist Porn Awards are the longest running celebration of erotica focused on women and marginalized people. The nominees for the 2012 awards prove that Feminist Porn continues to evolve, grow and create outstanding representations of sexuality from the raunchy to the artistic (and sometimes both at the same time.) I will be attending this edition in Toronto next April 19th to 21st!

Founded in 2006, The Feminist Porn Awards are produced by Good For Her, a Toronto, Canada based feminist sexuality education centre and sex store. This event was started when Good For Her realized it wasn’t enough to criticize adult films for not adequately representing women’s – and in many cases, men’s – sexuality. The Feminist Porn Awards were created with the goals of celebrating ethical, feminist porn, exposing this work to a larger audience, and creating community amongst filmmakers, performers and audience members. Since starting the Feminist Porn Awards, Good For Her has handed out nearly 100 awards to movies, short films, websites, directors, heartthrobs, boundary breakers and visionaries, while shining a light on the astoundingly sexy work of these feminist minded artists and filmmakers.

Cabaret Desire is nominated for the FPA 2012

As porn star and performance artist Annie Sprinkle famously said, “The answer to bad porn isn’t no porn… it’s to try and make better porn!”

The nominees on this year’s list continue to strive to provide erotic entertainment that is smart, sexy, and appreciates women as viewers. In addition to featuring over 40 nominations (my movie Cabaret Desire amongst them!) , the 2012 nominee list includes the highest number of nominated websites ever at 16 (my site lustcinema.com amongst them!!!!)